Your First Network: Friends, Family, and Peers

Networking is intimidating, especially when you’re starting out. The good news is you already have a network. It begins with the people you know—friends, family, classmates, professors, coworkers, and even that internship supervisor you haven’t spoken to in a while. These connections are your foundation. The key is to start tapping into them.

Tap into Your Existing Circle

Your network is closer than you think. Start by reaching out to the people you already know—those who can guide you, share advice, or connect you with opportunities. Here’s where to start:

Reach out with Confidence

Reaching out to someone you haven’t spoken to in a while can feel awkward, but it doesn’t have to be. A simple, friendly message can go a long way. Here’s an example:

Hi [Name], it’s been a while! I’m starting to explore career opportunities in [field] and thought of you. How are things on your end? I’d love to catch up over (coffee, a drink, lunch, zoom, etc)

This approach is warm, direct, and opens the door for conversation without putting pressure on the other person.

Turn Networking into a Habit

Networking isn’t something you do once; it’s an ongoing practice. Even casual settings can present opportunities to expand your circle. For example:

Share Your Goals

Let friends and family know what you’re working toward. They might have connections or insights that could help.

Stay Curious

Ask questions when you meet new people. You never know who might share valuable advice or become a meaningful connection.

By making networking a habit, you’ll build relationships that benefit your career long-term.

Beginner Tip: Start Close to Home

Your first professional contacts might already be in your circle—you just need to reconnect. Take that first step by reaching out to one or two people today.

Take action now

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Your network is waiting—start building it today!

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